April 25, 2006

Why Women Cry?

A little girl asked her mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told her.

"I don't understand," she said. Her Mom just hugged her and said, "And you also will."

Later the little girl asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all her dad could say.

The little girl grew up and became a woman, still wondering why women cry.

Finally she put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, she asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said...

"When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world,

yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my child," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

"The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."



..ahh so i'm lucky to be a woman ,thank God"





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35 comments:

Mahesh said...

100% true.
The power of the eyes of women can even turn the sun into moon.
Excellent blog.

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Anonymous said...

"The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes"

So true.. but often misunderstood and people judge by the outer beauty...

hey that pic of rina is cool ;) she looks cool ;)

Kathy said...

Mahesh,
..hi,thanx for droppin' by ^_~
and thanx for linking me..i've checked ur blog and it seems interesting..:)
..i'll do check it from now on.

cheers,
-kathy-

Kathy said...

Ravi,
...yeah ,that's true yaar^_~
...that pic. was taken last sunday at mcdonald's..it's not clear coz i took it from my mobile and the light on the place reflected :(
..but quite good naa *wink*
..goodluck to ur exam and don't teased me by giving call at midnight ok? ur like raine na..grrrr!! :D

cheers,
-kathy-

Jeevan said...

super post. womens are special in this world, hope u to pround to born as a wonmen.

Ekta said...

wow!
That was some post!
was soo beautiful...and so true...the tears say it all!

Mahessss said...

yes kath.. The art of beauty lies in eyes... not somewhere else in body..

By the way.. can i get god's phone number kath..

hei.. this one is really a good post about women..ya.. really.. keep it up.

Kathy said...

Jeevan,
..."Womens are special in this world" ohh what a music to hear that words yaar..
...yeah,being a mother ..now i know the true meaning of it.
..of course im proud to be a woman and to be a mother of my lil angel^_^.
thanx yaar.

-kathy-

Kathy said...

Ekta,
..yeah, there was a time when we just cry naa, and it helps a lot to ease some of our unspeakable and unexplainable tantrums and self-made problems hehe ^_~ sorry ,im talking about me ^_~ in a small things... ill get upset and just cry..self pity naa:( but after i cried it relieves the pain,then ill be ok.
..hope every man can understand us( probably No!!) hmm...hehe :)
goodluck to us yaar..^_~

-kathy-

Kathy said...

Mahes,
..yeah,we are special naa ^_^ even we're the most unpredictable person in this world hehe..
...haha im talkin' to you fellow taurean hmm..yeah how stubborn we are,oops is it only me??
...ok ok, ill admit it hehe ^_~ hey admit you too haha..:D
..about the phone no. of God?ask rina ok?

cheers,
-kathy-

Ka Uro said...

Here's what I found researching on why women cry more than men.

"women cry more than men due to the physical and hormonal difference between them. The hormone prolactin is present in the mammary glands and induces lactation but it is also found in the blood and tear glands. Boys and girls have the same level of this hormone until they are twelve years old. The girl's amount then gradually rises and by the time they are eighteen they have sixty percent more than boys do."

quite a convoluted explanation eh. i think God's explanation is better.

Kathy said...

Sayan,
...oh u liked rina's pic.?hehe..thanx, but u know what ?she hates me everytime i took her snap...that time we're in mcdonalds so i asked her .."rina look, i'll take ur pic.naa" and she said.."mom pls. not here ok?in her half-angry face hehe..so i took one when she's sipping her strawberry shake ^_~ coz i know she wont let me do.
...it's not clear coz i took it from my mobile and the light there is not good (excuses when im not satisfied) haha..*grin*
..well, woman not only cries, out of grief but yeah, most of the time haha *wink*
..have a great week ahead yaar!oops ill bugged you again :D when is the next straight talk eh??

cheers,
-kathy-

Kathy said...

Ka Uro,
...hey thanx for the informative explanation you gave..that's very true!!
...and i think its still cute feminine part of a woman to cry.^_~
...it really helps us, esp. when we're down and out..ahh i always do :(
..yeah,but God's eplanation is better^_~ rather the best!

...ingatz lagi.
have a great week ahead!

cheers,
kathy-

jlois said...

"...and i think its still cute feminine part of a woman to cry.^_~" at masagwa tingnan sa lalake ang umiiyak diba kath? :)kaya mas maraming lalake ang nag-su suicide dahil hindi mailabas ang mga sama nang loob.

Kathy said...

Jlois,
...umm masagwa siguro pag madalas hehe..i mean hubby ko ganun eh^_^ sa drama nga lang umiiyak na haha..kulit no :D
pero siguro lucky pa rin kaming mga babae kase nga nailalabas namin sama ng loob namin sa pag-iyak and it helps really.
...wag ka iyak pag-uwi mo ha nyee^_^ wala ka naman pala iiwanan jan sa thai haha..

cheers,
-kathy-

Anand said...

Hey neat post!
But am happy being a guy..dont want the periods and the labour pain!
Dont think can go through that!

Kathy said...

Anand,
..hehe so you're afraid of periods and labour huh?^_^
...well, God knows man can't handle those things so He gave it to women.
..yeah,that's the hardest part of being a woman and that's the time too when we can understand and be thankful for all the greatness of our own mother.
..have a great week ahead yaar!

cheers,
-kathy-

Keshi said...

aww LOVE this post Kath! mwahhhhh u definitely-beautiful woman! :)

I think there's one other reason why women cry...men.

LOL!

Keshi.

Kathy said...

Keshi,
..hehe...lol really?hugss u sweetie ^_^
...yea probably that's the reason naa , "MEN" aargh! haha...
..take care ^_~

cheers,
-kathy

Anonymous said...

ang galing ng explanation ni ka uro ah!

eneweiz, di crying doesn't mean a bad thing! it's always nice to cry!

siguro, women have bigger heart kaya mas madalas matouched! gets?

sandali san ka pala sasama? senti ka ba?

Kathy said...

Lojiks,
...oo nga its good to cry sometimes, ako libangan ko yun eh hehe^_^ nakakagaan ng pakiramdam di ba?
...senti mode ako :( wala lang !

-kathy-

Ann said...

Pag di ka naman napaiyak sa sakit pag manganganak ka di ba Kat?

Kathy said...

Ann,
...oo naman parang ayoko na nga maalala yun eh, :( sakit no?

...kumpleto pa ba mga egglogs dun kay KD? hehe..nai-imagine ko na naman ^_^ nyee kulit no?
..have a nice day!

cheers,
-kathy-

Shriedhar said...

one doubt yaar..
//The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

for a man??????????/

exasparater said...

first time here...

wow!! nicely written...


*** "The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides." ***

good quote!!

Kathy said...

Shriedhar,
Beauty of a man...
..."In the eye of the lover,his beloved is a beauty" and it is not beauty that arouses love,it is LOVE that arouses beauty.
...In other words,beauty does not lie in an object,nor does it lie people's heart,it is the action of an object on man(beauty feeling can be regarded as counteraction)but it is also related with man's loving passions.
...hope you got it yaar^_^

cheers,
-kathy-

Kathy said...

Exasparater,
...hey thanx for droppin' by and welcome to my lil place^_^
...glad you liked my post!
..hope to see you around.

cheers,
-kathy-

Anonymous said...

The essence of beauty, the way I see it; is in a person's maturity. A person who knows how to carry oneself, who knows how to act and react, who knows what to speak and what not to speak, is that not beauty?
- Posted April 17,2006 @ http://beauxmoment.blogspot.com

Kathy said...

Kidd,
...hey welcome to my lil place ^_^ well said...that's what i mean too, thanx!
..i've checked your blog too and it seems interesting,will do check again later :)
... hope to see you around!

cheers,
-kathy-

Jo said...

I read this sometimes back in a forwarded email. It is true that beauty lies in the eyes of a woman.

journeyman said...

And the tears are pearls, so precious that all the wealth in this world cannot buy a single tear wasted. And he for whom a tear is dropped is indeed a lucky one.
Congratulations for being a woman.
How are u yaar

journeyman said...

And the tears are pearls, so precious that all the wealth in this world cannot buy a single tear wasted. And he for whom a tear is dropped is indeed a lucky one.
Congratulations for being a woman.
How are u yaar

Kathy said...

Jo,
..."the beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes,because that is the doorway to her heart-the place where love resides".
...i know this words only describes one person..."Mom" and all mothers in this world.
...hope i can be as worth of this words.

thanx!

-kathy-

Kathy said...

Journeyman,
...hey glad to see you back ^_^ hope you'll stay around now and will do blog often.:)
...well said yaar, tears are so precious esp. when dropped to someone whom worth for it.
...im doing good ,hope you do^_^
...thanx!

-kathy-

Sudeep said...

Hats off to all the women in the world to make this place beautiful