Oops...before you react guys, i'm not doing anything wrong ok?( hope i do)^_^ but sometimes i dunno why people are hardly to say the word " I'm Sorry " even they did something wrong?... is the word sorry a crime? that when u say it to someone, one part of your body will vanished and will lessen your points of your great personality huh huh?!!
I'm sorry to say ( see i'm telling the word now) ^_^ yeah, i love the word sorry, thank you , hugss, sweetie etc.. etc..and i hate the word bye....so what?? I just hate it ok? So instead of saying bye ....i'll tell you see ya.
Yeah, my friends kept telling me that...." Kathy why you have to say sorry and thank you for always "? It's not that i love doing wrong guys but i want to say the word when i think that i've hurt someone with my words, so by saying sorry, it's like u hug the person right away. I believe that hug is the best way of expressing your feeling how sorry and thankful you are....and how that person meant to you.But of course depends on the person were dealing with...probably the persons who mean to us naa.
I think it's related to my own traits and attitude too..i love telling jokes and teasing someone but not to the extend that i would hurt them, coz me, myself.. i can be so sensitive too sometimes. That when i heard something bad and the person involved just don't say anything that he's/she's sorry...it will upset me so bad that of course will ruined my entire day. So the next thing is i will feel bad now to that person...and i will not be comfortable again to talk.
I'm sweet.. yeah i know , it's my nature but i can be cold as ice too in a minute and when i say " enough " to one person...expect that i will never give you another look again! That's me... i know i can't please anyone but who cares? Moreover, if that person is not worth of my love.
Sorry guys ( here i am again) ^_^ i'm not angry to anyone but i'm just lil upset maybe after posting this , i'll be ok!! ^_^ duhhhhh!!!
Ciao,
kathy ** smiles**
65 comments:
we were taugth in kindergarten abt these magical words sorry n thank you... but i have seen many ppl in my personal life.. those just say these words, but rarely thy mean it. and there s no point in saying sorry and commiting wrong thing again... n i agree to u that hug is da best way to express ur feelings...but thats limited to ur near n dear ones....not at the professional level..isn't it
hey y u upset now a days.. cheer up yaar.. many of us here wont like u this way.... i wish i could spend some time wiht u.....wanna see a big smile on u ^__^
awww
I agree...completely agree with ur post!
But u know even though its the simplest emotion, its the hardest thing to say..because a lot of times its associated with a huge ego that most of us have!
Also worst than not saying it, is when you say it and yet add on conditions to it.."am sorry, but I didnt intend to do this"...To me sorry should be absolute..no ifs and buts!
hmmmm...m kinda like u na kathy...so this post had me nodding my head and agreeing with everything!!...
sometimes saying sorry and being sensitive to other's feelings....that kind of is misconstrued as being weak??! BUT i don't think so...i think it takes a very special person to be sensitive to how others would feel...and weigh our words and actions so that people aren't hurt...
and sorry may seem to be the hardest word sometimes but it's the simplest way to dissolve misunderstanding na...
hmmmm...cheer up kathy (hope writing this post helped u get into a better mood!!)...coz u're perfectly right the way u are:)
tc...keep smiling!!:)
Its ok for not telling sorry and thanks to the people who are very close to us, but for other who are meeting first or some time, they expect us to tell thanks for there help and sorry for our some wrong.
You no need to use sorry, because u r sweet Kathy, u don’t know how to hurt or do wrong. Is it:) see ya
Ravi,
...thanx yaar, i'm ok now ^_^
...at least i wrote what my heart tells me.
...u know me naa, how i love to say those magical words for always.
..im smiling now ^_^ ok?
cheers,
-kathy-
You are so so right..!!
Hugz are a great stress buster too,no??Just a long hug and all's fine.
You have a daughter..??
Thats so great !!
OK Kathy
i am sorry i didnt make a pass for u the last time we met
i am sorry i am such a creep
i am sorry i am not younger
i am sorry u were born so much earlier than me
i am sorry dat i am sorry
India 4 25 am is Japan 7 56 am
u learn a lott by blogging
i always have like to say sorry
but never like say goodbyes...
i love that song by sade...
u have sweet blogs!
thanks 4 stopping by!
Ekta,
...** even though its the simplest emotion, its the hardest thing to say..because a lot of times its associated with a huge ego that most of us have.
** sorry should be absolute, no if's no but's**
..yeah, that's very true..sorry is not only a word , we have to say it from the bottom of our heart and mean it.
thanx sweetie!
-kathy-
Ish,
... yeah, saying sorry and being sensitive for other's feelin' doesn't mean we are weak.
..** i think it takes a very special person to be sensitive to how others would feel...and weigh our words and actions so that people aren't hurt **
..haan yaar, its just simple word that means a lot... the key and the simplest way to dissolve misunderstanding.
thanx sweetie!
-kathy-
Jeevan,
... **Its ok for not telling sorry and thanks to the people who are very close to us, but for other who are meeting first or some time, they expect us to tell thanks for there help and sorry for our some wrong **
..yeah, absolutely!! it must be..
... **You no need to use sorry, because u r sweet Kathy, u don’t know how to hurt or do wrong **
...nah of course i do hurt someone too of my words or in other way sometimes but i see to it that i will say sorry right away and not let the person be upset coz i hate someone doin' that to me too.
thanx yaar!
-kathy-
Cinderella,
...** You are so so right..!! Hugz are a great stress buster too,no??Just a long hug and all's fine **
...yeah, thanx u agree to me on that ^_^
...yup i have a daughter named "Rina" ^_^ look at her pic. on my flickr...she's the one wearing traditional( Japan) kimono
dress.
..thanx!
-kathy-
Jim,
...** i am sorry i didnt make a pass for u the last time we met
...**i am sorry i am such a creep**
....**i am sorry i am not younger**
...**i am sorry u were born so much earlier than me **
..** i am sorry dat i am sorry **
...lol! so much sorry huh? ur Saby right? ^_^ ok, ur crazy sorry's are appreciated though i dunno what ur talkin' :P hehe...
thanx!
-kathy-
Jim,
... **India 4:25 am. is Japan 7:56 am....u learn a lott by blogging **
..lol ur crazy of time gap huh?
..and yeah i learned a lot in blogging, esp. replying ur comment hehe :P
thanx!
-kathy-
Kai,
...** i always have like to say sorry...but never like say goodbyes **
...oh same with me naa ^_^ thanx sweetie...im happy that ur continue visitin' my blog and liking my post and music here.
...hugss u girl ^_^
cheers,
-kathy-
Hey,
Great topic!
I agree with ekta on this...simplest word and yet the most difficult to say mostly coz of our own egos.!
However once said, it can mend so many wrongs and bring together so many hearts!
Guess we have yet to realise the value of this word!
Anand,
...** agree with ekta on this...simplest word and yet the most difficult to say mostly coz of our own egos **
...yeah, wife surely smilin' now ^_^ hehe... sweetie can u hear that? Anand agreed with ya, coool!!
...** it can mend so many wrongs and bring together so many hearts **
...aww i love that line yaar ^_^ yeah it is...that's simple!!
...yeah, we've got yet to realise the value of this word!
... haan yaar, absolutely!! :P
thanx!
cheers,
-kathy-
I had a post on this too :) Why do ppl find it so hard to say Sorry and Thank U etc. When u mean it, u have to say it. And when u say it, u have to mean it.
ur right...a hug is the best way to say Sorry. Depends on the person ur dealing with.
Just like u I can be a sweety but sometimes I can be a cold cold devil too. And when Im really hurt, Im done with them. Sometimes even a Sorry doesnt take away the pain.
Keshi.
oh uh!! I think i know where this came from .. Gosh!!! I donno wat to say ....
hi, ate kathy! i so agree that sorry can be very hard to say for some people... sometimes, for me, too. hehe... have a great day!
Kesh,
... ** Why do ppl find it so hard to say Sorry and Thank U etc. When u mean it, u have to say it. And when u say it, u have to mean it **
..yeah, thats very true sweetie that hug is the best way to say Sorry...but of course depends on the person were dealing with...probably the persons who really mean to us naa.
..yup , ** sweet as sugar and cold as ice ** ..hehe thats what we are kesh when situation deals us so beware guys :P
thanx girl, have a nice day muaah!
hugss,
-kathy-
Apy,
... ahem what can i say too?? ^_^ ** kathy in speechless mode ** sigh!! hehe...:P
..lol if u know where did it came from? i can't say anything too right now, just hmm........................ **smiles**
thanx, i'm ok now sweetie! ^_^
cheers,
-kathy-
Acey,
... yeah i know coz sometimes i felt that too but thinkin' you made people upset coz of your words, for me ...i can't help to say sorry right away and happy to see the smile when u said the magic word ^_^
..we have to say it when we mean it!
...have a nice day girl!
hugss,
-kathy-
amen!(sorry)
Anon,
..lol! give ur name first before u say sorry to me...can't appreciate that hehe ^_^
-kathy-
"oisst katya... behave ka... huh! mag- sorry ka dali... ayaw mo bilangan kita isa, dalawa, tat.... gusot mo tlga palo huh. kaw tlaga ang tigas-tigas ng ulo mo.. sinabi na ngang magsorry eh... ayaw pa huh! hala dyan ka sa loob ng cabinet, di ka makakalabas dyan hanggang di ka nag-sosorry"
wala lang.... :)
Kneeko,
..lol! kulit mo ^_^ u mean di ikaw yang si anonymous jan sa taas ha? waaaa sino naman yan? ;(
anong sorry sorry? uwi ^_^
di talaga ikaw yan? lol kala ko ikaw hmmm....
I wonder 2, y do pple find it hard 2 say sorry, I cant get it and pardon me guys, especially men.
Funny isnt it?
Saying sorry most of the time is very hard because it means that you made something wrong or make someone uncomfortable and upset them.if you reall y meant to say it, it should come from your heart.Whatever happened upon saying sorry to the person is beyond anyone's control. Just accept and hope that everything will be okay after saying sorry!
Mike
Dubai
Sorry is such a powerful word. It can move even the meanest of all men. It is also magical in a way that a single word like that can change sentiments, and sometimes it can change a whole life for the better. I often use this word even I have no intrusion whatsoever, just like you. For me its's a form of great respect...
Whats wrong?
saying sorry has never been a difficult thing for me to say, maybe Im like you. I say sorry and thanks even to most mundande things.., the problem is I expect people to be like that too. Yeah, Im overly sensitive too! When I know someone wronged me and the "Im sorry " doesnt come then it will change the way I see that person somehow.
Lately though, I came to know that people have different ways to say sorry, maybe not in words but in action which is better than saying the word and not really meaning it.
Opps, I'm sorry if my comment is too long!
have a nice day!
sorry I've mispelled my name and mundane, heheh!
Christabelle,
... ** wonder 2, y do pple find it hard 2 say sorry, I cant get it and pardon me guys, especially men **
...hehe, yeah i think its their egos that makes them difficult to say that word.
...but when u mean it u have to say it guys ^_^ ok?
thanx!
cheers,
-kathy-
Mike,
... ** Saying sorry most of the time is very hard because it means that you made something wrong or make someone uncomfortable and upset them **
...yeah,so we need to say it when we think we made someone upset, say the word , isn't that simple?
many people just makin' it hard ,we've got to realize the value of this word.
thanx..
cheers,
-kathy-
Major Tom,
... ** Sorry is such a powerful word. It can move even the meanest of all men **
...yeah, it is!
** It is also magical in a way that a single word like that can change sentiments, and sometimes it can change a whole life for the better **
.. ** yeah, thats very true, it mend so many wrongs and bring together so many hearts **
Thanx!
cheers,
-kathy-
i value the word "sorry".
for me it's very important to say or hear those words when i offended someone or the other way around!
Jo,
...nothing yaar, just lil upset last time and can't help myself to write it here, been help for me though ^_^
i felt relieved now ;)
...im ok naa! ^_^
thanx!
cheers,
-kathy-
Ate Cha,
.. ** saying sorry has never been a difficult thing for me to say...i say sorry and thanks even to most mundande things **
..yeah, me too so i cant understand why people find it hard to do that somehow for that reason too, we change the way we see that person.
...we have to say it when we mean it.
..ok lang ang long comment Ate, i love reading it for always and replying too them as well ^_^
...Tokyo ame desu, Akita mo so desu ka? enjoy rain and lunch :)
ja matta ne **smiles**
cheers,
-kathy-
Mmy-lei
.. ** i value the word "sorry" **
..yeah, i think everybody must do it.
.. ** it's very important to say or hear those words when i offended someone or the other way around!
...i feel that too always , i mean it must be natural for us to say the word with no " buts " and " if's " along and from the bottom of our heart ^_^
...musta na lei? busy? o busy ka rin sa FIFA ? hehe...
thanx..ingatz!
cheers,
-kathy-
No Kathy,
Please don't be down! cheer up.
I thnk u r ok now as u told after posting this u will be fine. Thank god you pressed "publish post", otherwise u wouldn't have come out.
Sorry, Kathy was just kidding! Thank you for bearing my comment ^_~
lotsa hugzzzz!
Het,
..hehe, yeah after i published it..am totally ok naa ^_^
..i just need to let it out haha :P
hows u?
thanx yaar!
cheers,
-kathy-
im so sorry sis. nahuli na ko ng dalaw sa bahay mo. sorry talaga. ahihihi!
Juana,
...hehe ok lang ^_^ walang late dito....24/7 open bahay ko *wink*
thanx!
cheers,
-kathy-
just dropped in to MWAHHHHHHHHH!
Keshi.
i feel sorry that you're sorry. cheer up!
Kesh,
..awww sweet ^_^ muaaahh's back to u ^_^
..have a nice day!
hugss,
-kathy-
Ka Uro,
..hi ^_^ thanx im ok now, right after i've published my post hehe...that easy! :P
..i just have to let it out!haha...
...have a nice day!
cheers,
-kathy-
Gosh!! I m sorry tht i cant scrap u everyday coz of the block n not chatted with u for a long time na...
*hoping tht lil Kathy ka lil gussa will go away soon*
btw, when u, Keshi n Ishi will come to Pune i will say thnk u for coming n sorry tht m leaving n will run away ... *evil smiles*
Sudeep,
... ** i'm sorry tht i cant scrap u everyday coz of the block n not chatted with u for a long time na **
..hehe, ok sorry appreciated dear ^_^ yeah, im ok naa, dun worry :P
...** when u, Keshi n Ishi will come to Pune i will say thnk u for coming n sorry tht m leaving n will run away **
...lol! haha ^_^ u will run away from us? i dun think u can do that ^_^ we wont let u :P
...orkut is blocked today naa? damn !! ;( ;(
TC!
cheers,
-kathy-
have a great weekend Kath!
Keshi.
Kesh,
...yeah u too sweetie, have a great weekend! muaahh..
TC.
hugss,
-kathy-
Utsu,
...hi,konnichiwa ! welcome to my lil place ^_^
..** yeah, we must say the word esp. when we mean it.
...u can link me dear and thanx ^_^
see u around!
cheers,
-kathy-
just dropped in to say muwwaaahhh!!:-)
Ekta,
...aww so sweeettt ^_^ muaahh's back to u *wink*
...enjoy weekend girl!
hugss,
-kathy-
First of all Soo.. sorry for not blogging in your blog, recent times. oh.. yes.. there must be some reason for every action. truely.. i had to bind with my work continuously.. ofcourse.. i have a little time. but not in the mood to surf. itz ok..
yes kathy... I agree with u for asking sorry when we err sometime. itz good to narrow down any misunderstanding by "Sorry". even if others don't feel so sorry for their mistake. itz ok..we keep silent and let them realize by themselves. surely they will come across such occasions for others.
ok.. ok.. whatever it may be.. I am that sort not hesitate to ask for sorry if I commit anything wrong or feel bad. soo..
once again sorry for late comments..replies.. responds.. etc.. etc..
Take care..
GEM.
Heyyy... happy weekend :)
huuggzzz..
Mahes,
...oops looks who's here? ^_^ hmm..yeah u must be sorry for almost one month of no blogging hehe :)
...so i need to call u before u come out here huh?? lol! ^_^
...so how's u? still busy with work? well hope u'll be free soon...update ur blog yaar ;)
..take care and enjoy weekend yaar!
cheers,
-kathy-
I'm sorry that i still love you Kathy lol! babes gonna kill me i'm outta here.
Goodnight Kath.
raine.
Sudeep,
....aww u too have a great weekend dear!
...enjoy the match tomorrow, hope France gonna make it!
...take care sweetie!
hugss,
-kathy-
Raine,
..hahaha lol!! yeah wife's gonna kill you maybe so u better run now!
...dun ever call me late u insane!!
...replied to Che last time so i think its ok now!
..take care!
cheers,
-kathy-
oopppsss..sorry kat! late na late na pala ako rito.
dun kay ghee puro i love you naman..dito puro sorry.
happy weekend!
KD,
....hehe ok ok sorry appreciated ^_^ parang rinig ko tawag mo hanggang kusina haha...:P
..enjoy weekend!
cheers,
-kathy-
Ann,
..hehe ok lang sis, ay puro love ba kay Ghee? buti pa pala dun..makasilip nga mamaya ^_^
..enjoy weekend!
cheers,
-kathy-
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